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Parents, Put Down The Damn Phone!

Parents, Put Down The Damn Phone!

Your child is playing lacrosse—competing, creating, building friendships, and escaping the algorithms and endless sludge of the screen—so stop lecturing them about phone addiction while staring into your own. The games will end, childhood will disappear, and you will have plenty of time to scroll then.

Lets Talk About Business We Can Do Without Leaving the Game members

Lets Talk About Business We Can Do Without Leaving the Game

I built and sold an online education company, but the road there wasn’t easy. I spent years broke, consumed by coaching, and unable to focus on building financial stability. That experience—and the many coaches I see facing the same struggle today—is why I want to start a mastermind focused on helping coaches make money while continuing to coach the sport they love.

Whatever Happened to the Mystique of Being a Lacrosse Player? members

Whatever Happened to the Mystique of Being a Lacrosse Player?

When I played lacrosse in the early 90s, there was a certain mystique to the sport that’s hard to describe but impossible to forget. From beat-up boathouse jackets to frayed shooting strings and muddy cleats, being a lacrosse player felt like belonging to something slightly off, slightly rough, and completely magical. I’m not sure that identity still exists today, but I do know it mattered—and I can’t help but wonder if it’s something worth bringing back for the next generation.

Teen Sports Can Tell You “You’re Done.” members

Teen Sports Can Tell You “You’re Done.”

In the U.S., the teenage years are often when team sports shift from development to selection. Kids who love the game can lose access not because they quit, but because the system narrows. This isn’t about effort or character — it’s about how youth sports are structured during adolescence.

The Day the System Failed Him: What Coaching Can’t Prepare You For members

The Day the System Failed Him: What Coaching Can’t Prepare You For

A coach tries to do everything right when a player reveals a troubled home life, only to see the school psychologist break the delicate trust that was holding the situation together. This reflection exposes the gap between policy and humanity — and the frustration of watching a young person retreat further into silence because the adults meant to help couldn’t meet him where he was.

Coaching High School Lax Gave Me So Much. It Also Took Its Toll. members

Coaching High School Lax Gave Me So Much. It Also Took Its Toll.

Coaching high school varsity lacrosse was one of the most treasured experiences of my life — intense, beautiful, addictive. But passion without borders is expensive. I loved the game to a fault, and while it shaped me, it also consumed me in ways I didn’t understand until years later. If I ever step back on that sideline, I’ll bring the same fire… but with clearer boundaries for my time, my energy, and my future.

What Lacrosse Taught Me About Health members

What Lacrosse Taught Me About Health

After decades in lacrosse as a player, coach, organizer, and leader, I realized the one person I never coached was myself. Now in my 50s and in the best health of my life, here are the lessons I wish I applied years ago, and why coaches need to take care of themselves with the same urgency they expect from their players.